Love This Way!
The Love This Way Podcast delivers honest, healing, and transformational conversations about modern relationships, emotional wellness, and self-worth. No gender wars or back and forth, just solid advice to help men and women to find and sustain healthy love. Because love is a journey and you need direction!
Episodes
156 episodes
YOU CAN BE A GOOD PERSON AND STILL BE A BAD PARTNER
You can be a good person and still be a bad partner.You can have a good heart, good intentions, and still make the person you love feel lonely, unheard, or unappreciated.The question isn't just “Am I a good person?”I...
THE PERSON YOU’RE CHEATING WITH DOESN’T KNOW YOU!
The person you’re cheating with doesn’t know you.They know the version of you that gets to escape. The version that gets dressed up, feels desired, laughs, flirts, and gets to leave before real life starts.Sometimes what yo...
These Are Your People!
In a world that constantly tells us to chase the next thing, sometimes we forget to appreciate what we already have.Your family. Your home. Your people.Don’t risk something permanent for something temporary. And don’t miss the lif...
Men don’t age like fine wine. Neither do women!
Men don’t age like fine wine. Neither do women.We’ve been sold two completely different stories about aging:Men get better.Women expire.Men become “silver foxes.”Women are told to fight every sign of getting ...
Some Marriages Don’t Need More Love. They Need Less Defensiveness.
Some marriages don’t need more love. They need less defensiveness.Because sometimes your partner says, “That hurt me,” and instead of hearing them, you start explaining why they shouldn’t feel that way.They say,
What Are You Two Actually Building Together?
You can love each other deeply and still stop building a life together.You share the bills.The house.The kids.The responsibilities.But what are you actually building?What are your shared dreams?Your t...
YOU DON'T BECOME ROOMMATES OVERNIGHT. YOU PRACTICE IT.
You don't become roommates overnight. You practice it.It usually starts innocently.Different work schedules. Different bedtimes. Different routines. Kids.And before you know it, you're shar...
When Life Is Hard, Don't Make Your Spouse Pay for It
Maybe your relationship isn't broken. Maybe you're just exhausted.Sometimes life gets so heavy that the person you love most ends up getting what's left of you.You held it together at work.You were patient with the kids...
When did we stop flirting with the person we fell in love with?
Somewhere between the bills, the kids, the grocery lists, the responsibilities, and everyday life… we can accidentally stop dating the person we're already committed to.But being secure doesn't mean you have to stop pursuing eac...
The Greatest Relationship Skill Isn't Communication. It's Self-Government!
Most people think the greatest threat to a relationship is poor communication.I don't.I think it's poor character.Because communication doesn't stop you from cheating.Communication doesn't stop you from lying....
Your Relationship Has an Emotional Economy
I think we've been measuring love the wrong way.We ask,"How much do they do for me?"But maybe that's the wrong question.Because every relationship has an emotional economy.Every compliment...Ev...
Most People Think They're Being Accountable... They Aren't!
Everyone says they want accountability in a relationship.But I think most people misunderstand what it actually is.Accountability isn't saying,"Fine... I already admitted I was wrong."It isn't,"I ...
Your Partner Can't Read the Story You're Telling Yourself
Your partner can't read the story you're telling yourself.And that might be one of the biggest reasons relationships struggle.They walk in the house quiet...You tell yourself they're upset with you.They forget someth...
The Invisible Things Fathers Carry: The Fathers Nobody Checks On
Today isn't just Father's Day.Today is for the fathers nobody checks on.The ones who carry the weight of the world without telling anyone how heavy it feels.The men who lie awake wondering if they're doing enough.The...
Can You Love Me When It Hurts?
Most people ask:"Can you love me?"But the deeper question is:Can you love me when it hurts?Can you love me when you're disappointed in me?Can you love me when I'm struggling?Can you love me when ...
The Best Parts of Love Are Actually Small
We spend so much time looking for the big moments in love...The proposal.The wedding.The grand gesture.The expensive gift.But if we're honest?The best parts of love are usually the smallest.Because real l...
Complacency in Relationships: Why Do You Expect Them to Keep Choosing You If You’ve Stopped Showing Up?
Complacency doesn’t usually destroy a relationship overnight.It happens slowly.The dates stop.The compliments stop.The flirting fades.The effort gets replaced with routine.And the person you love starts feeling les...
There’s a Big Difference Between “They Don’t Care” and “They’re Trying”
There’s a huge difference between the spouse who simply doesn’t care…and the one who may get things wrong—but genuinely means well and is trying their best.And if we treat those two like they’re the same…we create pain wher...
Nobody Talks About the Grief Inside Relationships
Nobody talks about the grief that can exist inside a relationship that never ended.Not all grief comes from breakups.Sometimes it comes from:the romance that never camethe effort that slowly fadedthe emotional connecti...
She Became a Mother… But Did Anyone Ask Who She Became?
Motherhood changes women in ways people rarely talk about.Not just physically.Emotionally.Mentally.Relationally.A woman can deeply love her children…and still miss herself.And that doesn’t make her selfis...
We’re Not Enemies...We’re Misunderstood
It feels like men and women are at war right now…Everyone has a side.Everyone has a story.Everyone has a reason why the other is the problem.But what if we’re not enemies?What if we’re just… misunderstood?Men...
You Don’t Know Your Partner As Well As You Think You Do
You think you know your partner…But do you know who they are right now?Or are you still relating to who they used to be?A lot of relationships don’t break because love disappears.They break because understandi...
Your Partner Is Experiencing a Completely Different Relationship Than You
Two people can be in the same relationship…and have completely different emotional experiences.One feels loved.The other feels lonely.One feels secure.The other feels uncertain.One feels stable.The other ...
Why Being Chosen Still Doesn’t Feel Like Enough
Some people are in committed relationships… healthy relationships… loving relationships……and still feel unsure.They were chosen.And yet the questions still come:“Do they really love me?”“What if they change their...
Do You Even Like Your Spouse?
Being together doesn’t automatically mean someone feels loved.Some people are in relationships with partners they don’t tend to… don’t prioritize… don’t speak kindly to… don’t make time for… don’t show interest in… don’t romance anymore....