Love This Way!
The Love This Way Podcast delivers honest, healing, and transformational conversations about modern relationships, emotional wellness, and self-worth. No gender wars or back and forth, just solid advice to help men and women to find and sustain healthy love. Because love is a journey and you need direction!
Episodes
149 episodes
When Life Is Hard, Don't Make Your Spouse Pay for It
Maybe your relationship isn't broken. Maybe you're just exhausted.Sometimes life gets so heavy that the person you love most ends up getting what's left of you.You held it together at work.You were patient with the kids...
When did we stop flirting with the person we fell in love with?
Somewhere between the bills, the kids, the grocery lists, the responsibilities, and everyday life… we can accidentally stop dating the person we're already committed to.But being secure doesn't mean you have to stop pursuing eac...
The Greatest Relationship Skill Isn't Communication. It's Self-Government!
Most people think the greatest threat to a relationship is poor communication.I don't.I think it's poor character.Because communication doesn't stop you from cheating.Communication doesn't stop you from lying....
Your Relationship Has an Emotional Economy
I think we've been measuring love the wrong way.We ask,"How much do they do for me?"But maybe that's the wrong question.Because every relationship has an emotional economy.Every compliment...Ev...
Most People Think They're Being Accountable... They Aren't!
Everyone says they want accountability in a relationship.But I think most people misunderstand what it actually is.Accountability isn't saying,"Fine... I already admitted I was wrong."It isn't,"I ...
Your Partner Can't Read the Story You're Telling Yourself
Your partner can't read the story you're telling yourself.And that might be one of the biggest reasons relationships struggle.They walk in the house quiet...You tell yourself they're upset with you.They forget someth...
The Invisible Things Fathers Carry: The Fathers Nobody Checks On
Today isn't just Father's Day.Today is for the fathers nobody checks on.The ones who carry the weight of the world without telling anyone how heavy it feels.The men who lie awake wondering if they're doing enough.The...
Can You Love Me When It Hurts?
Most people ask:"Can you love me?"But the deeper question is:Can you love me when it hurts?Can you love me when you're disappointed in me?Can you love me when I'm struggling?Can you love me when ...
The Best Parts of Love Are Actually Small
We spend so much time looking for the big moments in love...The proposal.The wedding.The grand gesture.The expensive gift.But if we're honest?The best parts of love are usually the smallest.Because real l...
Complacency in Relationships: Why Do You Expect Them to Keep Choosing You If You’ve Stopped Showing Up?
Complacency doesn’t usually destroy a relationship overnight.It happens slowly.The dates stop.The compliments stop.The flirting fades.The effort gets replaced with routine.And the person you love starts feeling les...
There’s a Big Difference Between “They Don’t Care” and “They’re Trying”
There’s a huge difference between the spouse who simply doesn’t care…and the one who may get things wrong—but genuinely means well and is trying their best.And if we treat those two like they’re the same…we create pain wher...
Nobody Talks About the Grief Inside Relationships
Nobody talks about the grief that can exist inside a relationship that never ended.Not all grief comes from breakups.Sometimes it comes from:the romance that never camethe effort that slowly fadedthe emotional connecti...
She Became a Mother… But Did Anyone Ask Who She Became?
Motherhood changes women in ways people rarely talk about.Not just physically.Emotionally.Mentally.Relationally.A woman can deeply love her children…and still miss herself.And that doesn’t make her selfis...
We’re Not Enemies...We’re Misunderstood
It feels like men and women are at war right now…Everyone has a side.Everyone has a story.Everyone has a reason why the other is the problem.But what if we’re not enemies?What if we’re just… misunderstood?Men...
You Don’t Know Your Partner As Well As You Think You Do
You think you know your partner…But do you know who they are right now?Or are you still relating to who they used to be?A lot of relationships don’t break because love disappears.They break because understandi...
Your Partner Is Experiencing a Completely Different Relationship Than You
Two people can be in the same relationship…and have completely different emotional experiences.One feels loved.The other feels lonely.One feels secure.The other feels uncertain.One feels stable.The other ...
Why Being Chosen Still Doesn’t Feel Like Enough
Some people are in committed relationships… healthy relationships… loving relationships……and still feel unsure.They were chosen.And yet the questions still come:“Do they really love me?”“What if they change their...
Do You Even Like Your Spouse?
Being together doesn’t automatically mean someone feels loved.Some people are in relationships with partners they don’t tend to… don’t prioritize… don’t speak kindly to… don’t make time for… don’t show interest in… don’t romance anymore....
You Say You Want Honest Communication… Until You Hear the Truth
Almost everyone says they want honest communication.But what happens when the truth is uncomfortable?When honesty is met with defensiveness… dismissal… shutdown… or counterattack… people learn something quickly:Honesty does...
Can Your Partner Affect Your Self-Esteem?
People love to say: “No one can affect your self-esteem because it’s called self-esteem.”But relationships absolutely influence how confident or insecure someone feels over time. Not because they are weak.Because they are...
To The Men Carrying the Weight of the World...
This episode is for the men who are tired… but still standing.The men carrying full loads.The men solving problems no one else even sees.The men who feel like everyone depends on them — but no one asks how they’re doing.So...
Men Fear Failure. Women Fear Abandonment.
Some men aren’t afraid of commitment… they’re afraid of failing the woman they love. Some women aren’t “too emotional”… they’re afraid of being abandoned by the person they trust most.Different fears. Same pain. Same misundersta...
You’re Not Fighting…You’re Negotiating Power
Most of your arguments aren’t about the dishes.They’re about power.Who gets the final say. Who adjusts first. Who apologizes. Who holds leverage.You’re not fighting about the issue. You’r...
You’re Not Incompatible…You’re Emotionally Illiterate
You don’t fight because you’re incompatible.You fight because you don’t know what you’re feeling.Hurt becomes anger.Fear becomes control.Insecurity becomes criticism.Overwhelm becomes withdrawal.Emotional illite...
The Version of Love You’re Chasing Never Existed
The love you’re chasing may have never existed.Not in real life.Not in healthy relationships.Not in sustainable partnership.You weren’t disappointed because they weren’t enough.You were disappointed because it didn’t m...